For as long as I can remember, I have been in love with cooking. I remember at 8 years old, sitting in the kitchen, watching my mom pound steaks thin, dipping them in egg, dredging them in flour, and frying them to make my dad’s favorite supper. I remember being 5 years old and making homemade bread with my grandma, learning how to knead, let rise, and knead again. I remember being able to make homemade chicken and dumplings at 12 years old. I loved making up my own “recipes” – my first was when I was about 10, and was a carrot and celery soup. While it was not my shining moment, I was proud of my creation.
I’ve since improved.
Everything I know about cooking, I’ve learned from different sources. Whether it’s a cooking show, a family member, a friend, a website – it all fits together to create the cook I am now.
Whenever I am cooking, I can’t help but think about the people who taught me the various tasks I am performing. This Saturday, as I was making homemade buttermilk pancakes for breakfast, I measured the flour, scooping it out carefully. Next, I took a butter knife and tapped the sides of the measuring cup lightly, then skimmed the flat part of the knife across the top of the cup, making the flour smooth and level. My older sister taught me to do that one summer when I was visiting her and we were making cookies. She told me, “When you scoop out the flour, there will be air pockets in the measuring cup. When you’re baking, you have to be precise. Tap the sides of the measuring cup, and the flour will fall to fill the empty spaces. Then smooth the top.”
My granny taught me to cook scrambled eggs over a low heat. For years I scorched many a pan of scrambled eggs, thinking I just didn’t flip them around enough. “No,” she told me one day. “The secret is to cook them over a very low heat. Cook them slowly, and they will be perfectly cooked and fluffy.” Now I never make scrambled eggs without thinking about her.
I can’t use green onions without thinking about my dad, the best creole cook I know; he puts them in everything. I’ve learned so much from watching him cook. Butter goes with everything, so does white rice, and don’t be afraid to use heavy whipping cream instead of milk in your potato soup – it’s worth it.
Anytime we were “counting” anything, my grandma always added “one for the pot.” Hot dogs, cups of rice, it didn’t matter. “One for me, one for you, one for your dad [etc.] … and one for the pot.” I would imagine the pot coming to life during the meal and saying “Hey! That extra one was for me!” It never failed – somebody always ate The Pot’s hot dog. Sorry, Pot. Maybe next time.
This past Christmas, I made my very first apple pie from scratch. I have only accomplished a few things in my life, but right under the Top 2 (snagging the best man I’ve ever met, and graduating with a college degree) was my homemade apple pie. I proudly carried it into my inlaws’ house; you would have thought the thing was made of gold and diamonds, the way I was beaming over it.
It’s just that cooking… and baking… make me feel accomplished. Happy. Calm.
When I first saw the preview for Julie & Julia, I somehow missed the blogging aspect. But I did pick up on the fact that Meryl Streep, one of the best actresses of all time, was playing a very famous chef who I remembered watching on PBS when I was a little girl. Don’t ask me what a little girl was doing watching cooking shows on PBS – Julia Child, The Frugal Gourmet, and Justin Wilson were my favorites – but I would watch, mesmerized, as they chopped, minced, broiled, and baked. Immediately I thought, “I have to see that movie!” After doing a little research, I discovered that, not only was the movie about cooking, but BLOGGING TOO. Oh man. This was just too good!
I don’t want to write a movie synopsis. I’ve written enough book reports and movie reviews to last a lifetime, thank you very much. But I will tell you this – if you enjoy cooking, or blogging, or any combination of the two – GO SEE THIS MOVIE RIGHT NOW. I don’t care what you’re doing. I don’t care if you don’t have anyone to go with or your husband won’t go with you or you don’t like to go to the movies and you always wait until they come out on DVD. Find a theater, go to the matinee, beg, borrow, steal – whatever you have to do. It’s a great movie.
(Or you can wait until it comes out on DVD. No one is going to die if you wait – except you, of anticipation. It’s just THAT GOOD.)
I think my favorite part of the movie (besides, I don’t know, the COOKING, and the BLOGGING, and the AMAZING ACTING, and, ohmygosh, THE BUTTER), was when Amy Adams was SO EXCITED to get her first blog comment. I know exactly how she feels. When you’re a blogger, you’re a drop in the bucket – until someone comments, and then suddenly, you feel like frigging Hemingway. Someone knows who you are! Someone likes your blog! You could conquer the world! I love that.
I also loved how, when she had a super long tedious tiring awful really terrible stressful day at work, she went into her kitchen to make a chocolate cream pie, and that is what soothed her. I have talked about this with friends and my husband before – cooking is my stress relief. All I need is some good music (lately it’s been Pandora Radio on my iPhone), a glass of something cold and refreshing, and my cast iron skillet, and the stress just melts away. I remember when I was in high school, sautéing mushrooms in butter, drinking a coke, listening to Norah Jones, and thinking, “I feel better.” Just last night, I got off work at 6pm, walked straight into my kitchen, and started cooking. It makes me happy. It calms me down. I am in control. I am creative. I make things that my husband and I can enjoy.
“You know what I love about cooking? I love that after a day where nothing is sure … you can come home and absolutely know that if you add egg yolks to chocolate and sugar and milk, it will get thick. It’s such a comfort.” -Julie Powell
Couldn’t have said it better myself.
For kicks, here’s the recipe for what I made last night.
Turkey & Spinach Quiche (this recipe was adapted from another recipe, “Sausage & Spinach Quiche,” which was written by a friend.)
Ingredients:
-9 oz smoked sliced turkey breast (lunchmeat)
-6 green onions, sliced (slice 2 or 3 all the way up to the top, the rest of them only slice the white part)
-2 garlic cloves, minced (I “finely chop” because I hate garlic mincers; today I was out of fresh garlic so I used garlic powder, not as good of course but it worked in a pinch)
-1 bag of frozen spinach (I think mine was a 16 oz. bag) – fresh would also work, but this was so much easier. I thawed, rinsed, and squeezed all the excess water out of it
-2 cups grated Monterrey Jack cheese (I am sure any shredded cheese would work)
-9-inch pie shell, partially baked
-4 large eggs
-1-1/2 cups of half & half, whole milk, or 2% (I have used all three, they all work)
-1/2 t. salt
-1/8 t. pepper
-Parmesan cheese
[Note: Mine made enough for the pie crust and a little extra - so I sprayed a small glass Pyrex pan with cooking spray, poured in the extra mixture, and baked it along with the quiche - it turned out great also, so that's an alternative if you want a "crustless" version.]
Cut the turkey into bite-sized pieces and sauté with a little olive oil, onions, and garlic. When it’s nice and browned, add the spinach and cook until that’s hot.

Whisk together the cheese, eggs, milk, salt, and pepper.

Add the turkey & spinach mixture.

Pour into pie crust,
[Note: My mom taught me to pinch the sides of a store-bought pie crust to make it look "homemade."]

sprinkle with parmesan cheese,

and bake at 350 for 40-45 minutes, or until a knife inserted into the center comes out clean and the top is golden-brown.

I had mine with an ice-cold Screwdriver. A perfect way to combat the Monday blues.
Bon appétit!
Side note: My BF4EV (Blog Friend 4EV), Chelsea, also wrote a great blog post yesterday about Julie & Julia. This Saturday, Chelsea and I will be getting together for a day of cooking meals with which to stock our freezers. Then we’re going to guest post on each other’s blogs on Monday. You’re going to want to stay tuned. We’ll be wearing aprons. And taking pictures. I’m just saying.





debbie says:
Great photos! Dropped by from SITS. I love the part about remembering family when you cook. I feel the same way.
Kelly says:
The quiche looks great! I usually make mine without the crust and they are just as good. Baking has always been my number one way to relieve stress.
I love “one for the pot”… very cute story!
Chelsea says:
I made a cake from scratch when I was little. Big mistake!
In high school I went to one of those William Sonoma cooking classes and learned how to make rolls from scratch. I decided I’d double the recipe and make them for my very large family for Thanksgiving. Dough rises, a lot. A lot. It was madness. We had rolls coming out of our ears. But they were delicious and a labor of love. And that’s why I love cooking!
mediumcrazy says:
Hi Lauren…I came across your site randomly (via dooce) and now stop by a lot b/c you’re just so darn likeable. I think you’ve inspired me to see this movie now. Keep the posts coming… :)
Kitty says:
I know! I have to see that movie!
I always think of my mother when I cook. She taught me almost everything I know, and I love remembering her little rhymes and sayings. One day, when my sweet little mother is gone, I will always have this. I will always have her.
kym says:
ooo lala, can’t wait to see pictures.. with aprons.. just no suggestive apron pictures. hahaha! ;P and i love spinach… especially spinach dip. drools. i wish i had more time to experiment in the kitchen!
Sturgmom says:
Jason and I saw that movie a week or so ago and we BOTH loved it!! So cute!
For the record, I’m a terrible cook and I don’t particularly enjoy it, but I can always appreciate the results of someone else’s cooking passion. Namely, Jason. He’s a fab cook!
I’ve often considered freezer cooking, so I’m anxious to see what y’all come up with!
Samantha says:
Gosh, I really have to see that movie! :) You and Chelsea are too cute to come up with that idea – I can’t wait to see the pictures.
Your quiche looks delicious! Another one of my blog friends just posted two quiche recipes, too. (Sarah at classandcoffee.blogspot.com.) I made one of her recipes, and I’m going to have to try yours, too, because I loooove spinach.
Keep the recipes coming!
Cio says:
wellllllllllllll, if you LOVE to cook………….
Could you make me this ?????? > http://honestfare.com/?cat=3&paged=2 , Tomato, Pine Nut Couscous.
*note: I love Israeli couscous the best.
:D
or ya know, anytime you need someone to taste test….
well, i’m always here for you. hehehe.
Kristin says:
What a fabulous bestie bloggy swap idea!
breadwinner wife says:
Great post! That dish looks amazing!
Kathleen says:
Cooking is only soothing if you know what you’re doing. To me, it’s still REALLY stressful because I’m just learning.
But I do have plans to see the movie on Friday!
Deva84 says:
I absolutely ADORE cooking! just love love love!
Your meal looks delicious!
Michelle says:
It’s so great to hear how your passion for cooking unfolded. I haven’t seen the movie yet, but it’s definitely on my list.
And thank you so much for your sweet comment. I really am enjoying sorting things out. :)
Melissa B. says:
Oh, I love quiche…thanks for the recipe! I’m just starting Julie & Julia. Want to read the book before I see the movie, but thanks for the review, too. SITS sent me by, and I’m glad they did!
Kyla Roma says:
I loved Julie and Julia too- my best friends don’t cook and don’t blog, but they liked it….and I was almost squirming out of my seat with delight! lol
That’s Quiche looks amazing, I’ve never made one! I think I might have to fix that. Thanks!
HoustonGurly says:
I love this post! I feel the same way when I’m cooking – Granted that all is going well with the process. God forbid I scorch, burn or drop anything! Then the stress takes over.
I love to remember the tips that I’ve received over the years from cooking with so many people. :)
Amanda K says:
Thanks for sharing the recipe!
Helene says:
Okay, okay..you have convinced me. I will find some way to see the movie (without my husband b/c as I mentioned before NO sexual favor is worth dragging him with me). You know, I don’t really enjoy cooking but I do love that feeling of accomplishment when you put your heart and soul into a dish and it turns out wonderfully. I always know I’ve made a winner when my husband asks for seconds.
I do love to bake, though I’m not very good at it. It’s wonderful that you had so many family members who taught you the essence of cooking. My mom always shoood me out of the kitchen, which explains why I have no clue half the time what I’m doing.
The quiche looks so yummy!!!!
Jennifer Locke Whetham says:
Lauren! I saw your post on Julie Powell’s website and just had to check out your page. :) Great writing, great pictures! I am going to have to try that quiche recipe ASAP.
I’m looking forward to exploring the rest of your blog!
Peace,
Jen
Jennifer Locke Whetham says:
And I just read your side note. I will DEFINITELY stay tuned for aprons! :)